Rough sex is a sex practice where one attains sexual pleasure through pain. When you are performing sex with your partner one can experiment in order to bring out naughtiness nice on bed partners today are boring and no one wants to always go through boredom, it’s good to be romantic and have sex but not always one wants that sweet and sugar delicacy. After all we humans are only evolutionary species of animals, slightly advanced though. sometimes the partners want to ditch the sweetness and they want the sex to be rough and once they are done after experiencing it for the first time they come to know the another side and version of sex. Where there is a thought of attaining optimum level of sexual pleasure, rough sex can help in many situations. Spanking, biting, your female partner may sound like dominant practices but in actual females like these kind of activities done to them .But along with the desire to get pleasure and satisfaction they have a desire too and that us to be dominant on her partner. When it comes to rough sex both of the partners play their role of each becoming a dominant and a submissive. Here are the ways which tell us why women love rough sex:
1 .Sense of pleasure: rough sex practices result in sense of pleasure in females. This kind of stuff may exhibit harsh and one can think that rough sex hurts .Females can think that this type of sex can hurt their vagina .but this statement is actually a myth. Practicing rough sex results in release of oxytocin in abundance which is also called a love hormone .the pleasure they experience is not only physically but emotionally.
- Love hormone acting ‘there’ release of oxytocin results in contractions in the uterus and the vagina leading to sense of excitement and ultimately females start to enjoy more.
- The love (rough) practices hard sex practices such as spanking activates nerve endings in vagina .men just have to hit at the right spot of the butt that is the lower part
- it’s just a game of senses women love when men bite on their neck thighs or assets. Science behind this reveals that there are nerve endings at these parts which immediately give a sense of pleasure and excitement.
- Role of Goosebumps ever felt them while your boyfriend is biting and licking you at appropriate spots. It feels like butterflies in whole of d stomach and a fire running from our heart and reaching down there!!!!Ht is the release of dopamine in the body which again excites a female .ultimately they want more from their men and that too at a higher level.
- Its all in the brain responses such as response to pain, anger, sexual pleasure and satisfaction or response when emotional circumstances are there are all controlled by hypothalamus gland situated in the brain. All of these responses are interconnected and one stimulus results in response followed by another one .like for example if the female will experience pain during sex then she will also eventually experience pleasure and sexual satisfaction.
- More the attraction more rough is the sex when women are more attracted towards their partners. This then results in the scenario when women want a hard core sex from their partners.
My college mate luckily has a sexually compatible partner. She often tells me about her make outs. According to her, she enjoys sex with her boyfriend when it’s hardcore. “He spanks me hard and I feel excited and then I say him to spank my butt even harder”. stating this she further told about an incident in which they made out going wild, flaunting her love bites she said, “it feels super excited when he bites me and licks me all over , I moan in pleasure when he penetrates me deeper and harder. It makes me to want him more”. Not only she receives the pleasure but also blows him out of the water with her skills
While I was having a nice talk with my neighbour, she also shared her sexual experiences. “He fucks my brains out when his tongue goes down there”. Stating this she was happy that her partner likes to please her and not just sit back and enjoy the pleasure.
For men, if they enjoy rough sex with their females, their manly side gets revealed more, this shows a man’s confidence which attracts their girl more towards them.
If one has never experienced how it feels like to have a rough sex but has a desire to do so, here are some ways to initiate that hardcore sex:
- Start slowly: when you are having rough sex for the first time, start slowly progressing towards aggression. One can start with a kiss giving soft pecks on the lips of the partner and then move towards hard kissing, while doing this hold the back of the head of your partner and slightly pull their hair. This will arouse your partner’s feelings and your partner will reciprocate in the same manner. Then slowly move towards their neck giving soft bites and then giving unpredictable hard bites. Your partner will experience a great sense of arousal and then progress towards trying something more pleasurable or anything involving pain. when there is a state where male will penetrate the female, males can try giving a soft jerk slowly and that too shallow following by a deep one and then progressing to a harder sexton can also try different positions like if you are doing it when your female is resting her knees on the surface and you have a nice view of her butt, spank her a little and when she likes it, spank her harder, then make a quick move of hard penetration.
For females it is necessary when males are performing this ,you have to make pleasurable voices .this excites a male so much and makes him do things rougher. Moaning can be tried, also one can call her partners name and say things which pleases her male .the whole idea behind this type of intimacy is making moves slow and steady and then reaching to higher levels.
- Dominant and submissive sex
Rough sex is more playful when two people indulge in it .they can play roles. One partner can play the role of submissive while the either one can be dominant .the partner playing role of dominant usually initiates things. Roles can be played according to their role play in life. if in life or in profession, one partner is dominant then that partner can play role of dominant and enjoy in this manner,similalrly if you have a career where you don’t take initiatives much you can play the role of a submissive and enjoy in that. It is necessary that both the partners step out of their comfort zone if they actually want to try it. Without stepping out of it is difficult to enjoy having this kind of sex then.
Also one has to keep in mind that having rough sex doesn’t mean one will abuse the partner or mistreat the partner by while playing dominant. One can swap roles to behave in a controlled manner and environment. One can introduce sex toys to please female’s body parts. Females can also do the same for their men.
Girls like when boys show aggression and behave like an animal in the bed. According to girls, guys taking control over them is the sexiest thing ever!!!!
About The Writer:- Divya Choudhary is a third Year nursing student from Delhi .She is a aspiring writer a person with a dream to put a impression in people’s heart though her writings .She love to watch and observe people as she says ” Two clocks don’t show the same time ,two persons are also different ,they differ in cultures behavior , decision making and most probably everything except the fact that they are human beings. She love to Write And Read you can connect to her through INSTAGRAM @dgirlwithstareyes