Life Philosophy

17 Jul

“I am sad because life sucks. My life sucks”, she cried.”Why do you need to be sad if life sucks. You know what? Life sucks because you learn the blues and not the yellows”, I replied. “What does that mean?” She sobbed.”We become tough as a stone while what life teaches us to flow like a river”, I said. “I don’t get it. If life throws lemons at you, you can’t feel sweetness. Right. That’s an old saying”, she said.”Fuck the old saying. Listen to what I have to say”.”Hmmmmm”. “Why doesn’t one become good to people because once he was mistreated and he knows how it feels? Why doesn’t he become appreciative of others because once he was insulted? Why doesn’t he become empathetic towards others because he was hurt once?Why doesn’t he stop judging people because once he was judged by others? Why doesn’t he become more understanding of others because once he was misunderstood and bitched about? Why doesn’t he become more giving because he didn’t receive the love and care from the people he deeply loved once? Why doesn’t he become sweet because he knows what bitterness is and how he felt once when people were bitter towards him.

I am bitter because my girlfriend left me. I am angry because my friends didn’t care for me. I am rude because no matter how good I was with people I was betrayed in the end. I am cruel because people have hurt me and have never turned around to look if I am alright. Why? Why carry their dark sides and learn the negative feelings? Why don’t you learn from your own sufferings? Why do you have to carry the legacy of those who did bad things to you. If you would keep doing that the world would never be a better place to live in. You don’t need to read Socrates and Aristotle to know about life’s philosophy. They never read others. Pay attention to your own life and don’t do those things to others because of which you suffered a great deal once. Because life gave you lemons once you don’t need to squirt it in the eyes of others. Swallow the
lemon(like Shiva swallowed the venom) and learn the lesson to make it a point that you wouldn’t become like one but you would spread the light because you knew once what darkness felt like.


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Posted by on July 17, 2017 in random thoughts


48 responses to “Life Philosophy

  1. B. Someswar Rao

    July 17, 2017 at 1:46 PM

    Good advice. My complaint was people ‘like’ but don’t read. So I started reading many blogs in full.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Madhusudan

    July 17, 2017 at 3:37 PM

    Beautifully written…we shouldn’t carry dark sides of any things and learn the negative and our own sufferings.

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Manasvi Gupta

    July 17, 2017 at 11:01 PM

    Some great and rather much needed advice👍🏻

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Rekha Sahay

    July 18, 2017 at 12:52 PM

    Very nine post with a perfect quote .

    Liked by 1 person

  5. Ben Aqiba

    July 19, 2017 at 2:20 PM

    Great post

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Simran sachdev

    July 19, 2017 at 7:46 PM

    Totally agreed 👌

    Liked by 1 person

  7. Tanya MacPherson

    July 19, 2017 at 8:38 PM

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  8. I am Aranab

    July 29, 2017 at 7:23 PM

    Every one is going through their own form of hell. We cannot hold it against our loved ones for not being there. We need to just improve our own inner peace and wisdom and hope people will catch up. Treat people nicely at first and then treat them as they treat you but do not carry that over to someone new if it is a negative emotion.

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    August 1, 2017 at 4:34 PM

    This is a good tip particularly to those fresh to the blogosphere.
    Short but very accurate info… Thank you for sharing this
    one. A must read article!


  10. blackeneddagger

    August 21, 2017 at 3:36 AM

    Very good advice!


  11. doris

    September 7, 2017 at 4:06 AM

    good introduction to ‘must read’ of every single person- even if she doesn’t share the philosophy of sucking world. Like Your post! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  12. Hannah Adler

    September 14, 2017 at 11:10 PM

    Very nice!

    Liked by 1 person

  13. grimmatter

    September 21, 2017 at 1:44 PM

    i have been self-learning philosophy and reading tons of posts like yours, it really does help me rationalise my thoughts. our past tends to shatter us but what we sometimes don’t realise is that we have the option to let misery act as our fuel (instead of wallowing). or in better words, use it as motivation to live a happier life.

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  14. 80's_kid

    September 27, 2017 at 6:23 PM

    Very insightful

    Liked by 1 person

  15. The Backstreet Bond (devchaitanya)

    September 27, 2017 at 10:40 PM

    Appreciated!! Loved the line-up”like shiva sucks venom”. I know being an Indian about it…The poor girl really needed a move on because you cannot be on the same damned stage for your whole life!!

    Liked by 1 person

  16. akratiblog

    October 8, 2017 at 4:04 PM

    amazing! may be you can read my blogs too .. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  17. unnamedsignatures

    October 15, 2017 at 11:24 PM

    Life is what we learn from it. Nice thought…

    Liked by 1 person

  18. happyreginaphalange

    November 3, 2017 at 1:13 PM

    It takes great heart to be that selfless, Great post! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

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    November 6, 2017 at 6:27 PM

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    • Ajay Vyas

      November 6, 2017 at 9:38 PM

      Sure welcome to the board and happy blogging


  20. Nitisha Mathur

    November 9, 2017 at 5:18 PM

    It felt like someone just wrote my heart out! Super like! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  21. DuanZeav

    November 17, 2017 at 2:09 PM

    Good advice indeed.

    Liked by 1 person

  22. tichkuleblog

    November 24, 2017 at 11:13 AM

    Thanks For Sharing this Beautiful Article.

    Liked by 1 person

  23. newskira

    November 24, 2017 at 11:32 AM

    Wow.. amazing post.. well written.. 🙂


  24. newskira

    November 24, 2017 at 11:33 AM

    Wow amazing post..well written.. thanks for sharing..

    Liked by 1 person

  25. Princy Khurana

    November 24, 2017 at 11:28 PM

    i think its imp to learn from our mistakes and move on. when nothing seems to work with me, i tend to step back and see if i am at fault or not and evaluate how i can fix things.

    Liked by 1 person

  26. Priyanka Patwari

    November 24, 2017 at 11:51 PM

    Awesome advice given by you.. I really enjoyed to read it


  27. charukesh G

    December 3, 2017 at 12:39 PM

    Good one!

    Liked by 1 person


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