“I am sad because life sucks. My life sucks”, she cried.”Why do you need to be sad if life sucks. You know what? Life sucks because you learn the blues and not the yellows”, I replied. “What does that mean?” She sobbed.”We become tough as a stone while what life teaches us to flow like a river”, I said. “I don’t get it. If life throws lemons at you, you can’t feel sweetness. Right. That’s an old saying”, she said.”Fuck the old saying. Listen to what I have to say”.”Hmmmmm”. “Why doesn’t one become good to people because once he was mistreated and he knows how it feels? Why doesn’t he become appreciative of others because once he was insulted? Why doesn’t he become empathetic towards others because he was hurt once?Why doesn’t he stop judging people because once he was judged by others? Why doesn’t he become more understanding of others because once he was misunderstood and bitched about? Why doesn’t he become more giving because he didn’t receive the love and care from the people he deeply loved once? Why doesn’t he become sweet because he knows what bitterness is and how he felt once when people were bitter towards him.
I am bitter because my girlfriend left me. I am angry because my friends didn’t care for me. I am rude because no matter how good I was with people I was betrayed in the end. I am cruel because people have hurt me and have never turned around to look if I am alright. Why? Why carry their dark sides and learn the negative feelings? Why don’t you learn from your own sufferings? Why do you have to carry the legacy of those who did bad things to you. If you would keep doing that the world would never be a better place to live in. You don’t need to read Socrates and Aristotle to know about life’s philosophy. They never read others. Pay attention to your own life and don’t do those things to others because of which you suffered a great deal once. Because life gave you lemons once you don’t need to squirt it in the eyes of others. Swallow the
lemon(like Shiva swallowed the venom) and learn the lesson to make it a point that you wouldn’t become like one but you would spread the light because you knew once what darkness felt like.
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B. Someswar Rao
July 17, 2017 at 1:46 PM
Good advice. My complaint was people ‘like’ but don’t read. So I started reading many blogs in full.
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Ajay Vyas
July 17, 2017 at 2:59 PM
😃😃
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Madhusudan
July 17, 2017 at 3:37 PM
Beautifully written…we shouldn’t carry dark sides of any things and learn the negative and our own sufferings.
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Ajay Vyas
July 17, 2017 at 3:43 PM
Life teaches us all
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Manasvi Gupta
July 17, 2017 at 11:01 PM
Some great and rather much needed advice👍🏻
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Ajay Vyas
July 17, 2017 at 11:05 PM
Thank u
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Rekha Sahay
July 18, 2017 at 12:52 PM
Very nine post with a perfect quote .
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Ajay Vyas
July 18, 2017 at 1:29 PM
Thank u rekha
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Rekha Sahay
July 18, 2017 at 1:52 PM
😊😊
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Ben Aqiba
July 19, 2017 at 2:20 PM
Great post
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Ajay Vyas
July 19, 2017 at 2:21 PM
Thanks ben
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Simran sachdev
July 19, 2017 at 7:46 PM
Totally agreed 👌
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Ajay Vyas
July 19, 2017 at 9:04 PM
Thank u
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Simran sachdev
July 19, 2017 at 9:45 PM
Also visit me
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Tanya MacPherson
July 19, 2017 at 8:38 PM
Hey! I think you might enjoy my latest post https://tanyatale.wordpress.com/2017/07/07/bridge-of-eternal-love/
Also if you reply to this with a link to your blog I am posting a post with a few blogs I’ve found and love and I would like to use yours with your permission 😊
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I am Aranab
July 29, 2017 at 7:23 PM
Every one is going through their own form of hell. We cannot hold it against our loved ones for not being there. We need to just improve our own inner peace and wisdom and hope people will catch up. Treat people nicely at first and then treat them as they treat you but do not carry that over to someone new if it is a negative emotion.
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www.sozialy.com
August 1, 2017 at 4:34 PM
This is a good tip particularly to those fresh to the blogosphere.
Short but very accurate info… Thank you for sharing this
one. A must read article!
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blackeneddagger
August 21, 2017 at 3:36 AM
Very good advice!
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doris
September 7, 2017 at 4:06 AM
good introduction to ‘must read’ of every single person- even if she doesn’t share the philosophy of sucking world. Like Your post! 🙂
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Hannah Adler
September 14, 2017 at 11:10 PM
Very nice!
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Ajay Vyas
September 15, 2017 at 7:53 PM
Thank u hannah
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grimmatter
September 21, 2017 at 1:44 PM
i have been self-learning philosophy and reading tons of posts like yours, it really does help me rationalise my thoughts. our past tends to shatter us but what we sometimes don’t realise is that we have the option to let misery act as our fuel (instead of wallowing). or in better words, use it as motivation to live a happier life.
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Ajay Vyas
September 21, 2017 at 4:09 PM
☺☺☺☺
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80's_kid
September 27, 2017 at 6:23 PM
Very insightful
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Ajay Vyas
September 28, 2017 at 12:11 AM
thank u so much
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The Backstreet Bond (devchaitanya)
September 27, 2017 at 10:40 PM
Appreciated!! Loved the line-up”like shiva sucks venom”. I know being an Indian about it…The poor girl really needed a move on because you cannot be on the same damned stage for your whole life!!
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Ajay Vyas
September 28, 2017 at 12:10 AM
thank u bro
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akratiblog
October 8, 2017 at 4:04 PM
amazing! may be you can read my blogs too .. 🙂
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Ajay Vyas
October 8, 2017 at 4:29 PM
Sure thank u so much
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unnamedsignatures
October 15, 2017 at 11:24 PM
Life is what we learn from it. Nice thought…
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Ajay Vyas
October 16, 2017 at 3:35 PM
Thank u so much
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happyreginaphalange
November 3, 2017 at 1:13 PM
It takes great heart to be that selfless, Great post! 🙂
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Ajay Vyas
November 3, 2017 at 2:18 PM
Thank u so much dear
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November 6, 2017 at 6:27 PM
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Ajay Vyas
November 6, 2017 at 9:38 PM
Sure welcome to the board and happy blogging
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Nitisha Mathur
November 9, 2017 at 5:18 PM
It felt like someone just wrote my heart out! Super like! 🙂
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Ajay Vyas
November 10, 2017 at 2:57 PM
Thank u nitisha
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DuanZeav
November 17, 2017 at 2:09 PM
Good advice indeed.
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Ajay Vyas
November 17, 2017 at 2:10 PM
☺
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tichkuleblog
November 24, 2017 at 11:13 AM
Thanks For Sharing this Beautiful Article.
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Ajay Vyas
November 24, 2017 at 11:17 AM
Your most welcome
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newskira
November 24, 2017 at 11:32 AM
Wow.. amazing post.. well written.. 🙂
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newskira
November 24, 2017 at 11:33 AM
Wow amazing post..well written.. thanks for sharing..
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Princy Khurana
November 24, 2017 at 11:28 PM
i think its imp to learn from our mistakes and move on. when nothing seems to work with me, i tend to step back and see if i am at fault or not and evaluate how i can fix things.
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Ajay Vyas
November 25, 2017 at 10:55 AM
I hope you are doing good
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Priyanka Patwari
November 24, 2017 at 11:51 PM
Awesome advice given by you.. I really enjoyed to read it
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charukesh G
December 3, 2017 at 12:39 PM
Good one!
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